I
was in too great a state of shock to write about it immediately, but last night
I discovered that environmental journalist, animal rights activist, raconteur
and all-around humane human being Bob Carlson (who blogged the Hazard Hot Sheet as the “Green Knight”) passed
away June 9.
Bob
got in touch with me years ago, since he was a big fan of the saur stories, and
we’d be in close correspondence for a few weeks, then I wouldn’t hear from him
for months. Then BOOM! We’d be back talking about one thing or another. We were
both children of the Sixties and shared many tastes in art, books, music and
humor. And, like a lot of us from that generation, we were “experts” on a
million seemingly unrelated topics. He was a great reader – and a reader of
science fiction (where he must have first encountered my work) not a “fan” in
the “fandom” sense. He just loved reading the stuff, and we filled a number of
emails talking about our favorites, and exploring one esoteric subject or
another.
What
we also had in common, I suppose, was that we were often both struggling to get
along: to get bills paid, scrabbling along for subsistence in one way or
another. That may explain the months in between correspondence at times. I’m
not sure if I even spoke to him over the phone – maybe once or twice. I’m shy
about telephone conversations because I’m a talker, and once I’m on the phone I
never shut up. I imagined if Bob and I got on the phone we’d talk until dawn
and the phone bill would be large enough to fund a Mars mission.
God,
I wish I hadn’t been so cheap.
Once
or twice we talked about collaborating on a saur story or two. I was a little
too cautious – too protective –since I had some plans for saur stories and I
wanted to make my way through them before I took “the guys” through any other
further adventures.
Damn.
I wish I wasn’t such a slow writer. I wish I wasn’t such a stick-in-the-mud
about launching into new stories, new ideas.
I
remember once, one of my oldest friends was approached by Bob on Facebook, and
she asked me if this guy was okay. I told he could seem a bit overwhelming at
times, but he was a good guy.
A
very good guy. Top dollar. Solid.
But…
overwhelming. Yeah. His mind was as big as the universe and, as our old buddy
Axel the little blue theropod will tell you, that’s a pretty big place.
And
his love of animals: I don’t think I’ve known anyone who worked as tirelessly
and selflessly for abandoned and rescue animals. He never flinched from taking
in an extra little friend who needed a home and love. His heart was, as they
say these days, an awesome thing.
I
also remember he once sent me a story – about a chicken named Henny Penny, and
it was an updated fable – a little bit of Chicken Little and a little bit of
the one who crossed the road; and he worked into it a number of his
environmental concerns, corporatization, animal rights and probably a dozen
other interesting things into a few tight pages.
He
lost his copy of the story with a computer crash. I lost my copy of the story
with a computer crash of my own. I did manage to retrieve a lot of stuff, some
of which is still on a CD-ROM, but I couldn’t access the story. Bob asked about
it several times, since he wanted to revise it. I told him that, as painful as
it would be, he should just start from scratch and write it over again, as I
had to do on a number of lost stories. Easier to say than to do. As far as I
know, he never did. I would love to see what he would have come up with if he
had.
I
also remember Bob, in several emails, reminiscing about San Francisco and the Bay
Area, where he’d spent his younger years. Life had moved him to St. Louis,
which is as good a place to be as any, I suppose, but Bob’s heart, as the song
says, was in San Francisco.
I
hope he’s there now, in some shape or form or permutation.
I
wish I could sing, like the Little Sparrow, “Non, je ne regrette rien.” I
regret – a lot. We live in a big world that fools us all the time: fools us
that it is smaller, manageable, in our grasp – and that even though new things
come along, everything we remember will be here always. All our friends, all
our loves, are granted some sort of immunity from time, and we are never going
to feel any more loss than we already have.
So
reading about the death of Bob really kicked me a good one in the gut. Last
month, hearing of Larry Santoro passing did the same thing. October of last
year, Delphyne Woods – I nearly dropped dead myself.
Death
isn’t taking any vacations.
And
from now on (he says, fingers crossed) I’m not taking anything for granted.
If
you know someone you haven’t heard from in a while – send them a line. Give
them a call. Whatever you do, don’t lose touch.
I
know – so many people, so little time, but – just try not to lose touch. You’ll
have a few less regrets when your own time comes.
JUST
ONE MORE THING: I found out about Bob’s death because I was working on a “sort
of” saur story last night. It’s about a lot of things, as all stories are, but
Agnes and Sluggo are in it, and I’m trying to sneak a few more guys into it,
like Doc and Kara and Eliot and Cyrano and Charlie (at least I’ll try. But the
story is really more about Reggie, and kids, and loneliness in a world in a world where corporations will spend
trillions to find out everything about you, but nobody wants to know you.
So…
I was working on this scene set in a toy store, and they’re selling saurs in
there, and the sales staff is all dressed up in safari togs, and this one sales
rep is wearing a pith helmet.
Yes,
I said “pith helmet.” (those of you who knew Bob know why this is important.)
I
type the words in: “pith helmet.” I look at them. I look at each letter in each
word.
Suddenly,
the voice in my head says, “Where’s Bob?” I can’t see those words without
seeing Bob in his pith helmet. He was so proud of that thing when he got it. He
sent me pictures.
And
he looked great in it. He looked perfect.
“Where’s
Bob?” So I searched. And with disarming swiftness I learned what happened.
And
almost as instantly I went into a state of shock, or The Bummers, or whatever
it is that happens to you when the news is so bad you just shut down and turn
the world off.
Whatever
it is, I’ve been feeling it too much.
So,
the next saur story I finish, I’m dedicating to Bob.
Take
care of yourselves, everybody.
And
don’t lose touch – ever.
